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Can you feel the Hate?
June 30, 2008, 1:09 pm
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You mean to tell me that the world wide web isn’t some warm and comfy blanket that you can wrap yourself in, curl up with your loved one and eat M&M’s?  No?  Oh.  Damn. 

That’s right we are dealing with people with vastly different backgrounds and personality temperaments.  In laymen’s terms:  Some People Suck.  (not you!  You rock it with your socks off!)

Now we all know that I can be a total cry baby right?  No?  Well I’m a total wuss at times.  Other times I want to punch someone in the face.  I don’t know why the face….  actually that sounds like it would hurt me more than the said attacker.  Ok, ok, you convinced me.  I’ll go for the balls.    

I’ve been hearing about a lot of hatred being spewed in numerous blogger’s ways.  Why?  Because they have nothing better to do?  Probably.  Perhaps its because they felt attacked first and are feeling defensive?  I’ve done a little bit of research (read: gossip queen) and this most likely isn’t the case.  Because they are the spawn of the devil?  It is likely but the dna tests have yet to be confirmed.  Because they secretly hate themselves and their own trivial lives?  DING DING DING!!  I think we have a winner!

What has me shaking my own head and scratching my balls…..  er sorry, wrong gender.  I forget when I’m mad.  Anyhoo, what has me questioning the sanity of all of this, is the fact that the victim usually will not repremand the attacker.  This is absurd to me.  

There are blogs that have come and gone and switched identities like Batman in the night, just to flee from the pain.  There are people like her and her who decided to put up a grand law of the land stating in plain form what they will and will not put up with.  I applaud each lady and those that follow the forthright plan.  But, in their disclosure form I never saw a place where they would stand up to the attacker.  Or at least let the person be known.  I understand the idea that it gives into the drama and they don’t want to perpetuate the cycle.  Totally understandable.  Admirable even.

However, I think I’ll choose the path less traveled.  I declare that if someone chooses to attack me, or slander my precious blog, I will not let them hide.  I will not delete their comment, unless it is anonymous.  I will let you say what you want, but I won’t let you be a coward.  I want everybody who comes to my blog to read the good, the bad, and the ugly.  Even from my readers.

Neither path is right or wrong.  This is just how I’m going to deal with it.

Head on b!tches.  lol.

 


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I’ve been blogging for a year and a half (had a blog before from here to there) and I’ve had one troll the entire time. Of course, I have not achieved any notoriety either, which seems to be a precursor to troll attacks. My troll came from my old mommy board and I’m pretty sure I knew who it was, so it was more of a personal thing. I am not sure who you are talking about (well, I know of one), but I like to see bloggers take their trolls down. That’s hard in the heat of the moment though.

[Mrs. Kitty] Your right. It is hard in the heat of the moment. What exactly are trolls anyway? I’m sorry you had to still have to deal with one.

Comment by Natalie

hey, Mrs Kitty. I just want to clarify, in case it wasn’t clear…I wasn’t attacked in any form. I’ve seen friends on both/either sides and I’ve felt for both of them and as opposed to picking one story and making it known that I’m putting my two cents in on eDrama, I’m choosing to just say, ‘hey guys, we’re all moms and sisters, and women and let’s just get along.’

that was my only point. It makes me really sad to see people feel attacked or berated, especially in such a public domain and especially in such a viral way.

[Mrs. Kitty] Whew. That’s good. I don’t like to hear of my friends, even efriends, getting attacked. I like your statement and totally respect it. In fact I think its the high road. I just feel bad for the victims and don’t like the attackers to be able to sit in the dark wings and get away with such vileness. So I’m calling them out. Er… or rather letting them call themselves out. uh Right.

Comment by Zoeyjane

I agree with you. I’ve been really bothered today by an instance of one blogger attacking another without provocation of any kind. The attack-ee has taken the high road, called out the attacker in the nicest manner possible without revealing her identity to her readers. I think that’s so admirable. And I know I couldn’t do it. If you notice, these blogging bullies only attack those that are too respectable to call them out by name. I’m not letting anyone hide behind my couth and class—because I haven’t any.

[Mrs. Kitty] That is exactly what I am talking about. Blogging bullies. I think that there are so many good peeps out there and too many people hiding behind their computer screens saying not nice things. I’m just taking a stand sayin’ I wont back down if your headed my way! We can have no couth and class together! LOL.

Comment by Honeybell

Kitty. I beleve that every one has the right to like or dislike what I say.if I dish out some garbage I expect to get it back.on the same token if I’m wroung in what I’s saying I and big enough to admit it. if some has some nsaty too say to go for it.like the saying goes ” sitcks and stones can break my bones,but the words will never hurt for long.”
That’s my story and I’m sticking to it. Big time Hugs and God’s blessings headed your way!

[Mrs. Kitty] You know I feel the same way. If I dish it, I expect it back. But if I give respect, then I expect that in return as well. Good for you for admitting your junk. Admirable. :)

Comment by mjgolch

Or do like I do. Make fun of yourself all the time and leave nothing for your troll to pick on. :)

[Mrs. Kitty] You know. I think that’s the best idea yet. I’m great at making fun of myself!

Comment by BusyDad

I have not been the victim of any troll. Like BusyDad, I have no problem picking on MYSELF. LOL But you can be dang sure, if any one was berating me on my blog I would call their ass out on it. No way would you catch me running away…it’s a blog for goodness sakes! LOL

[Mrs. Kitty] Exactly my friend. It’s a blog and people are putting themselves out there. Respect it. And I haven’t been a victim of troll activity [[[knock on wood]]]. I’m just making a preemptive strike.

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